Let’s Take an Honest Peek Under the Hood First, I love being a man. And I love women. That said, men have become a target in recent years for being born men. Oops. But does that bother real men? No, we’ve faced worse in our long and torrid history… We need to celebrate our manliness, not hide from it. But we […]
… You’re Too Popular On Social Media We all hear “influencers” promise we’ll be hot if we buy the right product, do some routine or add something to our diet… But no matter how “hot” someone is, negative qualities can still send others heading for the hills. That’s because a huge factor in attraction is about what you don’t do. My […]
… That’s Actually A Story After you die, you meet God who asks , “So, how was heaven?” The end. Commentary in the comments. Modified from a Quora answer by Vishal Lahsiv
And You Don’t Have to Buy the Writer Dinner Metaphors bring together two unlike things, like a man and a woman. She stared him down like a panther ready to pounce, teeth like razors behind cherry-red lips… Her sparkling eyes: the gateway to his demise. “Dying is a wild night and a new road.” — Emily Dickinson Metaphors are words on crack. They can […]
Who Does Your “Frequency” Actually Attract? Your attitude and outlook on life give off a “frequency.” Some call it a vibe or an aura. They’re all based on the emotions you let rule your life. Your frequency also determines who is attracted to you. The good news is you have a choice in your emotions, and who you attract. You can […]
#4 The cashier becomes your social life. I remember when the pandemic first started, some of the happy people were employees told to leave the office and work from home. First the first time, many tasted the work-from-home life. They ordered delivery, grew their hair long and maybe added a little cake. It was part of staying safe. It’s been a […]
The Life of a Writer Finding Himself The darkness of the pandemic caused me to light a spark within. I needed to write again. I remember pacing for a long time with a blank page on my screen, wondering what to write. There were so many things to say. So, I wrote a long piece about how my journalism career was […]
… So Good People Will Think You Paid For Them Nothing ruins a good story more than choosing an unoriginal image. I’ve seen the best writers on this platform point that out. Some successful writers even suggest paying for images, it’s that important. But it’s not really necessary if you know a couple tricks. First off, photo sites like to show […]
Yet It Was One of My Best Messages Ever Writing a column to fill space in the high school newspaper seemed simple enough, until I added a secret message that spread like wildfire through the student body. It all started when the editor asked me to write about senior life as we prepared to graduate. Nothing big, right? But for years, […]
Hint: They’re Roles, Not People Guys, if you ever want to repel someone, put on your best (worst) “nice guy” act. First, greet them in a loud voice, “Hey, why are you here?” Then, act like the know-it-all who can “man-splain” anything with scantly a trace of vulnerability (imperfection). The results are pretty rapid, repelling humans in seconds. Other the other […]